A Sad Goodbye to Toebe

In honor of my pet dog, Toebe, I am going to write about what a wonderful pet therapy dog he was. I bought him one Tuesday night from Dumbfriends leaque. The following Wednesday he was going to work with me every day. Some days I believe he was the one getting the therapy. He loved being petted. He was very loyal and I never had to scold or leash him. He brought much laughter and comfort to a lot of the residents at the nursing homes I visited and worked at.
Residents at the Long Term Care facility where we worked loved to spend time with him. One gentleman in particular always tried to train Toebe to do new tricks. He was always telling visitors what a loyal, well behaved dog Toebe was. Another resident had his son bring in a bag of dog bones so he would have them on hand when we came to visit.
There were little things Toebe had to overcome. He was very afraid of other dogs and children. It must have come from living wild on an indian reservation. But within a few short months, he came to treat children and other dogs as if they were his bestfriends.
The elders at the facility would take turns brushing him, going for walks and training him. (Of course he already knew the tricks, but they didn't have to know that).
So why am I sharing this? Because Pet Therapy is a vital part of the residents in nursing homes lives. It gives them a sense of importance to help take care of an animal. It also helps them forget about their troubles for the short times they spend petting or talking to an animal. You see, they knew Toebe was safe to tell their troubles to; he wouldn't laugh, nor would he tell them it isn't important. They knew thier secrets were safe with him.
On a few occasions, Toebe was known to get into the bed with residents who were unable to stay up for long or were terminally ill. He would gently jump up and slowly lie down beside them, and put his head on their chest as if to say, "I know how you feel."
So, if you have a dog that you feel is great with people; please consider visiting one of your area Nursing Homes. All you have to do is call the Activity Director and set up a time to meeet so she can test your dog, we have to be sure the residents are safe of course.
I had to put Toebe down a few days ago and it was a great loss to me and to many who knew and loved him. Even family members and staff would bring treats and gifts for him. I will miss my best friend a great deal. But now I have a new little girl named Madison who I am now training to visit Nursing Homes. I will keep you updated on her progress.

Pet Therapy for Nursing Home Residents

I just put my dog down this weekend. It was so painful. He was a loyal friend and companion. Many staff, residents and family members would tell me how unique Toebe was. He was very gentle mannered and quiet. Never jumped or barked. He seemed to sense when a resident was upset or sick. He would walk up to them in the chair and put his head on their lap and just stay there. Or he would get up on the bed, (when given permission of course) and lay next to a sick resident who was unable to get out of bed.
Oh, I wish you could see the smiles on faces in the nursing homes I worked at. Residents that never spoke to staff or family would suddenly brighten up when I brought Toebe into their rooms. One woman despised people; she would ignor staff or yell at them; sometimes even swing at them when she didn't want to be bothered. But when I would bring Toebe next to her she would reach out and start petting him. And so gently too.
Yes, I miss him terribly; but sometimes loving is letting go. He will be remembered for a long time by staff and myself. Pet therapy is the greatest therapy you can give. The residents will respond to dogs, cats, and even a guinea pig!

I am reminded of a guinea pig I bought for another nursing home. I worked at. When I first brought her around I was nervous. I was afraid the elders would scream thinking she was a rat. But to my amusement and surprise, they took to her like a baby. They loved having something so small that needed them to care for her. We held a vote and the majority ruled to call her Coco. They loved watching her for hours as she played in her cage.
One lady who would never come out of her room, would sneak out at night and feed her. That wasn't so good for the guinea pig, but it brought meaning to this lady's life. Staff witnessed her coming out of her room late at night to talk to Coco.

Yes, pets bring joy and a sense of purpose to some elders in Nurisng Homes. Some now have dogs and cats living in their facility full time. The residents are responsible for meeting the animals daily needs. Of course the staff supervises and keeps an eye on the animal to be sure it is being well cared for.

So, if you have an animal that you believe would be good to visit a Long Term Care facility, simply call and ask for the Activity Director. Then tell her what type of pet you have and she will give you the guidelines. We had a rooster on a leash, a lama, even a pony come visit one of the places I worked at as an Activity Director. We even had a police dog come in and they gave us a demonstration of how the dog works for the department. I will never forget it; they gave me the sleeve and let the dog attack me! The residents talked about that for months!